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When Venus or Mars is in Gemini, talking turns them on - use words in bed with them, it doesn't have to be rude but something mor inventive than the weather forecast would be in order. They also love to kiss! Oral pleasures are the speciality of the house with these lovers. Role-playing excites them, as long as it is varied. Altogether they are great fun in bed, if you can cope with their sudden bursts of speech in the depths of passion. An intellectual conversation may put you off your stride, but to them it's all a part of foreplay. Sometimes over ambitious about what they can manage, these lovers are highly enthusiastic and very curious, though not especially wanton and promiscuous by nature. Their tendency to 'over-think' sexually brings up many "buts" and "what ifs" surrounding sex and what they might actually do. They are less driven by their desires than they are by their intellect. 

When Venus or Mars is in Cancer,you could get one of the sweetest and most sensitive of lovers. romantic and coyly gooey with you. Provided their switch hasn't flipped when you'll see a pouting and slightly paranoid display, suspicous of your motives. They are often turned on by master-slave scenarios, and may like you to be a little mean and aggressive in bed, as long as they know you love them. They need to feel controlled, to a point, provided your motives are overall loving. Often turned on by the idea of making a baby, a response to the home and family nature of Cancer, they are known as the sign most attracted to breasts - they generally like their men to be macho-masculine and their women ultra-feminine, at least in fantasies. They don't always let on what turns them on, expecting you to sense their needs. Their style in bed is protective and soothing. 

When Venus or Mars is in Virgo, there is a healthy attitude towards sex, their daily stresses and tensions are naturally released whether it's with others or just with themselves. They are turned on by unusual people and people who often pass unnoticed. Simple and sweet is the way they like their bed partners. They also get turned on by the idea that they are your slave and love doing little things for you, getting worked up themselves when they see that you appreciate the things they do. They can be insecure about their own bodies, and make up for it by paying close attention to their methods of turning you on. They are also drawn to imperfections and have the best time with a partner who shares insecurities. They'll make a project of them, and their partner will never feel so specially attended to with anyone else. They are insatiably curious about sex, although many don't take their curiosity much beyond fantasy, their fantasies often feature the downtrodden and inexperienced. They can be turned on by playing naughty, slutty and wicked roles - voyeurism is also especially appealing to these lovers, who can display a delightfully decadent streak - within a secure relationship. Indeed this sign is often misunderstood and is not as picky and particular as is thought. They want to please and like to be streetwise in the lovemaking arena, often "doing" more than most other signs within the confines of a healthy relationship. The sign most likely to have more than one porn dvd.

When Venus or Mars is in Scorpio, the sexual nature can be quite complex. In fact, forget the 'can', it will be. These lovers show intensity and depth in their desires, but they vary in expression depending on their changeable moods. While some enjoy power and are attracted to breaking taboos, willing to do almost anything, and they enjoy full-body pleasures, others express their need for control by being unavailable and abstaining for long periods of time, giving in only when they feel their partner is deserving of them. Most manage to be both these things and given to keeping their partner guessing what mood they are really in. This can be hugely and delightfully surprising, and guaranteed to be exhausting, or just as hugley frustrating. Whatever their nature, they have a way that promises commitment and intensity in bed. They are provocative but private, and absolutely the most passionate of all signs. Sex is intimate and personal for Scorpio, and most will never kiss and tell. The sign most likely to give you one night you will never forget.

When Venus or Mars is in Sagittarius, sex is treated rather like a sport. These lovers are athletic, direct and forthcoming with their desires and needs. They have an almost innocent frankness about them, and they love to have fun in bed. Laughing and roughhousing are huge turn-ons but they can be selfish in sex, and their need to "get off" will almost always be expressed. Games, though, are acceptable for Sagittarius lovers, just as long as they are not too time-consuming. They have little or no patience with playing hard to get and beating around the bush (possibly not the best choice of words on reflection). The same goes for excessive sentimentality, possessiveness or over-romancing. The best way to approach sex with these people is to just do it, and then talk about it later. Approach them with a philosophical slant and you'll have them hooked. The sign most likely to tell you what you are doing wrong, while you are doing it.

When Venus or Mars is in Capricorn,straightforward sex is generally best. Simple and lots of it. Capricorn-type lovers are often attracted to experienced, and sometimes older, partners - but when the Capricorn is female, especially,  the reverse can also often be the case. They often prefer strong, powerful lovers who display some sort of authority or know-how. Capricorn's earthy nature shows up in their love-making style—it's generally no-frills that is most appealing to these lovers. They can be quite happy with consistency, as variety is less important to them than is security in sexual expression. And quantity of it. Their sexuality is, however, deep and powerful. Though they are often quite private about what goes on in the bedroom some will want others to know that they are on top of things in their sex life, if avoiding the details. The sign most likely to have a toyboy, or a sugar-daddy.

When Venus or Mars is in Aquarius,there can be a "take it or leave it" style that can be sexy or maddening. Sometimes, too, a period of demanding passion will abruptly turn into a spell of chilly abstinence without warning. They don't have a reputation for warmth in sex, although they may well think otherwise because, at least in theory, they are open-minded, curious, experimental and find of sensation. They like to give off an air of being savvy and cool in bed. Sex from a distance - at arm's length, as it were,  is often where they shine and cyber or phone sex, or affairs that don't break up marriages, can be especially attractive to these folks. They are most turned on when you are not, as detachment can be a real turn-on for them. A challenge.  Conversely, the more up for it you are, the less they will be. Unless you are miles away on the other end of a phone. The idea of sex is generally more exciting to these lovers than the actual act. Their fantasies often involve getting caught having sex, and they are attracted to people who are a little offbeat or odd.   The sign most likely to have more than one vibrator / sex toy.